Constant Confusion

I find a lot of other non-binary people find themselves in a state of constant confusion of "who am I?" or "what am I?" and also being asked questions like "but how can you be a lesbian when you have no gender?" and many other (frustrating) things. I like to use my style/fashion to help find who I am and also to show others that I can be who I want to be, wear what I want to wear. I dress pretty masculinely most of the time, because that's what I'm comfortable in. But you can't grow when you're comfortable. So I like to push myself and wear things that put me out of my comfort zone, while still being comfortable in my own skin and being unique!